Rape jokes?

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My boyfriend and my assalent work together.
He comes home everyday and tells me what has been said about me....then he tells me it's all of them joking around about it...examples
"He said you took it willingly and was begging for more"
"He told me you took it like a champ"
"Why can't you do me like you did him?"
My boyfriend doesn't get why I'm so mad about it..I've tried explaining it and telling him it hurts for him to joke about something so serious and traumatic....but he still does it...

Any suggestions as to how I can get it across to him that I want him to stop?

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Umm... why isn't your boyfriend beating the shit out of him? Mine would never let that happen.

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Dump him, tell him to go fuck himself, he does not care about you and does not respect you, he doesn't deserve you! You deserve a man who can understand and support you, give you comfort and can help you recover from this horrible stain in your life. It is possible, the right one is out there. Not the one you are with right now, tell him to fuck off.

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Hes a dick.. if he cant respect how you feel about it and keeps joking about it he doesnt really care about you, no man should ever do that to someone who has been raped.. if he cant stop joking about it id get rid if him.

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Rape jokes are not funny at all. I've never been raped, but I can obviously understand why rape jokes hurt and are not okay.

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Even if he does not understand why you're upset if he can't respect your feelings enough to stop then you should get rid of him. He isn't mature enough to be in a relationship yet and he never will be as long as you stay with him.

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I'm soooo so sorry that you are going through this. That being said you need to strap on your warrior woman attitude, and leave his immature and disrespectful ass. I have been raped and if my husband was working with my rapists this shit would not fly. It's one thing for your rapist to be making comments but for your SO to join in is despicable. I would leave him in an instant. Keep your chin up, girl! You are strong and beautiful and you deserve so much better!💗💗💗😘😘😘

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Omg. No no no. That's NOT a good boyfriend. I told my boyfriend what happened to me and he felt TERRIBLE about it... rape isn't a joke. Nor should your man be conversation with him about it. 
They work together fine, they should be talking about work if they MUST talk. It shouldn't be about you!!! 
I'm sorry to say, you shouldn't be with this man.... and I never say that to women, but that's not okay. 
Next thing that might happen is that your "boyfriend" might start thinking rape is okay too.

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First off... break up with home, he doesn't deserve you if he can't understand that NONE of it was your fault. Secondly... go to the police. That guy RAPED you. There is jail time for that

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that's a warning sign babygirl. Leave him

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Get recordingings of him saying that stuff and then turn his ass in for sexual harassment. Easy fix.

Rape jokes?

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