This is probably too TMI for some people, but I would like assurance/advice from people who have been through this. I had my first baby in october. He was a big boy and I had tears/stitches. My DH and I just had sex today for the first time since our son was born. While it did not hurt, it did not feel the same. Before birth I could "squeeze" to increase sensation, now I feel like I have no control over anything down there. My husband also admitted that my vagina feels different. Another thing is queefing. It happens every morning AND it was happening during sex. I hate it. I don't mind farting in front of the hubby but farting from my vagina is just weird and gross. I feel like someone who loved to have sex and felt great during sex has turned into a loose vagina milk dripping baby machine. Will this ever get better? I feel inadequate for my husband 😔. He assured me that the sex was still good, but I don't think it was that great.