Were to send toddler?

✡Bracha✡♈ • Mom of David 14months&Esther1 month
Im due jan 27 with a baby. I have an 11 month old will be 1 by then and no one thats willing to watch him😔. Should i just tell my dr it looks like ill be delivering at home? Is it dangerous to deliver at home? Im a bit nervous now i was sort of thinking my mom would help watch him since she watched my nephews for my sil but she said no. I guess ill be delivering at home. I have no idea what to do. Is that dangerous? I mean women did this back in the day i guess?😞