Anyone want to share their miscarriage stories?

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I am struggling to get over my most recent miscarriage at 12 weeks. I had terrible nausea and sickness from 6 weeks onwards. and as soon as I miscarried the nausea disappeared. I am finding it hard to move on and forget about those few weeks as if they never happened. This is my third miscarriage.

Please do share your stories so I know there are others out there going through the same as me . It will help me

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I lost a baby girl at two hours old, her twin brother at 11.5 wks old, multiple misscarriages then a boy at 23wks 5days gestation old. Its truely devastating and very challenging to go through. You never get over it but it becomes easier when you find peace. I found peace by chrocheting items for prem babies because when i lost my recent boy i forgot his blanket and hat and the thought of sending him to the mortury with nothing just broke me in a million pieces i couldnt stand up. A very kind nurse made me a set and brought it back on her day off god bless her id never been so greatful i was so overwelmed by her kindness. From that minute on i swore no other mother/father would go through that awful moment and i make clothes, hats, booties, mits, blankets and angel gowns every month now. It brings me comfort knowing they have something. I always receive beautiful notes of thanks which i never expect. Never give up fighting for your dream. It took me ten yrs i was told id never have a healthy boy due to a rare genrtic issue where my body attacks the boy chromosomes. If it gets to a fetus stage it attacks its organs. This could happen to a girl too. Was told to stop trying but hell nonwas i giving up. A year to the day i lost my boy i found out im expecting a healthy boy and hes being delivered 29th dec. miracles happen you just have to believe and keep strong even though its hard. God will bless you. Sorry for your loss and i pray your blessed in strength and peace and have a healthy baby soon. God bless

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I had a misscarriage at 14 weeks and had the same problem really bad nausea And vomittiing I couldn't eat or get up. I was very sick so I went to get checked because I started seeing brown discharge stuff and they told me l was misscarring .. worst day of my life. But got my lip man cremated and he's here with me till this day. I know it's hard hunny I only had one misscarriage and I was terrified I asked why this had to happen to me.

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Hi Hun. Sorry for your loss. You will start to feel better soon but the truth is you will never forget. I lost my first daughter at 23 weeks in April 2013, then my son in May 2014 at 17 weeks and most recently my daughter in March 2016. It's been a hard journey but ive come out the other end and still have hope. I'm currently 19 weeks with my rainbow,a little boy, i have so many things wrong with me and im entering my danger zone now, i need to make it at least another 5 weeks. But i will never give up hope and i will never forget my babies. You and your partner need to stay strong and be there for each other xxx

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Sorry for you're loss. My sister in law has had 11 miscarriages and now has 2 kids:) it will happen. Good luck!

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Sorry for your loss. Hope ur doing ok at least. Ive had 2 mc both at 15 weeks. So heartbreaking. So i completely understand where ur coming from. Ul never forget but its gets better i guess. I had mine about 2 weeks ago and im still devastated. I was just about getting there with the positivity and excitement but once again it all got ripped away. I feel your pain tho. Stay strong and if you believe in God read the word for today and pray. I hope u get ur bfp soon and ur rainbow baby too. Good luck. Xx

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Prayers!

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You sound like a mirror to my miscarriage accept mine was at 13 weeks they are always at 13 weeks. Why am I not allowed to be a mother? My true purpose and dream is to be a mother. I feel like God gets my hopes up only to tear them away from me again. I'm so depressed and my family isn't supportive at all. They are making it about them and won't leave me alone even though I've asked to be left to grieve in peace. I'm shattered as this is my third baby lost. It takes every ounce of me to get out of bed and achieve something. I try to eat and fail I try to sleep and fail I try to laugh and make myself be happy and can't. My husband is just angry at the world and disgusted by his family's behaviour and isn't very supportive right now. The one thing that gave me hope is that we can try again and now my husband says he isn't interested in ever trying again and that he's done with it all. He knows that my only dream is to be a mother and he says I have to find a new dream. All my hopes and dreams have been taken from me and I'm not one of those girls who can accidentally on purpose fall pregnant. I don't even want to touch him or look at him with the way he's acting anyways. This was my last shot and now thanks to my husband I will never be able to have children. I will never know that joy. Everything seems grey now and all the light has left my life. I'm just some emotionless shell wandering around. I scream at myself to snap out of it but I guess I've been broken. The cruelty of people throughout this miscarriage has been horrible. I have no support and no one to talk to. It feels as if I'm in the corner of a sealed pitch black room and my candle is burning out. People have always kicked me around and I've always responded with positivity and love. I always said they didn't know any better and it was just human nature. Now for the first time in my life I feel hate. I hate the world and all that inhabit it. I care for no one because I'm treated like im no one. I'm done.

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