So two weeks ago I was admitted to L&D because my blood pressure was too high. I left and everything was okay. Then the following week I woke up with extreme back pain, assuming I pulled a muscle. I couldn't move, or even sit it hurt that bad. And then while recovering from that I woke up last Tuesday with Bells Palsy. So I've been on a whirlwhind of never ending shit. Well I brought up to my boyfriend that I feel like he hasn't been lovey, or as affection and that he doesn't seem to want to be around me. And he blew it off. Now this last week I've been upset and crying  a lot because let me tell you having half your face paralyzed sucks. And it actually hurts. It feels like I got punched in the face. And the thought of not being able to smile... for maternity pictures, my baby shower, or even by the time my little one is due. I'm 30 weeks along so It's very emotional. We've been fighting non stop because I've been so negative. He told me I'm selfish too and that I need to change. That he does everything for me. (He went to Walmart to buy me a heating pad for my back last week) wanna know what else he did? Told me he was going Christmas shopping and spent the whole day out only to come home with stuff for him AND A NEW CAR. (Without even telling me because he thought it would be a good surprise) so we've been arguing all day and I packed up some stuff for the night and left. He was out until midnight last night and won't be home until late tonight either. I asked him for support instead of being tore down and he told me that I'm living in the house we got, typing on the phone he's paying for, and driving the car that we got. (Which we equally pay rent, I pay my car payment, but he pays for my phone) all I was looking for was for some EMOTIONAL support. Am I overreacting? Or is he just being an asshole. He asked me why he would bother begging me to come home tonight after being "so ridiculous" tonight.