Doctors Office Is Killing Me 🤜🏽😖

Angel • Mother To A Beautiful Baby Girl ❣️👩‍👧 .
How do you ladies find out how dilated you are ? I hope I asked that right lol . At my last appointment I asked and my doctors office told me they don't check for that until I'm in labor  😕 . I go tomorrow for my 38 week appointment 😩 and I wanna know .