breakup; but am I ready?

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Last night, my " boyfriend " said he wanted to talk. Girls, we all know what this means. 
And it really sucks bc I love him, but we've been arguing so so much, it's crazy. The point is, I know that we need to breakup, we've tried everything to stay together. Saying we'll change and stuff but in reality, we're the same or maybe even worse.
When I have " the talk " with him today, I know he's going to break up with me but I want it to be in a way that we won't hate eachother after. In a way that he'll want me back after everything. I just know we both love eachother and you fight for what you love, but this is seriously too too much. I guess I need some motivation to let go and all of that, please help girls💔💔

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If he breaks up with you,  there's no more 'love'.  Why would he if there is?  If he breaks up with you make sure it's forever or else it'll be break up after break up & each time it'll just get harder.  Your first love isn't really your first love...I bet you are a beautiful girl,  you'll find someone who'll love you for a lifetime.

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I don't exactly agree with Viri . Sometimes , in a relationship you need to break up and take some space from each other to realize how the little arguments and the things that irritate and annoy you about each other don't matter ... and to help you realize exactly how much you cant live without each other . My rule is you break up once and be open to rekindling in the future after you've both had some time and space .. you start out as friends and then date after a while and then eventually get back together if it all works out ... but if it doesn't work again after that then it won't work . Sometimes it takes a loss to realize how important someone is to you ... but not multiple losses , then it's just playing games . Suggest this to him and see if he would have a open mind about the future and that you want to respect his wishes and to take some space from each other for a while and then possibly rekindle in around 6 months from now . (6 months is a good amount of time to focus on yourself and really figure out what you need and want) . If he's okay with that then definitely just give him his space but if you two truly love each other it'll work out in the end . But don't keep breaking up , taking space and going back because that's just beating a dead horse . I would suggest only doing it once .

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You don't need to worry about him wanting you back. You should worry about focusing on yourself & moving on! It might be hard at first, but you'll see it gets easier everyday! Before you know it you won't even be thinking about him anymore!

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This sounds like my last relationship. And it was truly just a waste of time. 4 years wasted. It'll hurt right now. It'll hurt bad. But the sooner you guys end this cycle, the sooner you will find someone that works well with you.  That you don't have to change for, but that you can grow with.

breakup; but am I ready?

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