Anyone ever been in a relationship and....

Your SO became unemployed at the beginning of the relationship, then later he finds another job and 2 months pass by and you're wanting to go shopping, buy Victoria secrets, nails, pedi, hair do's and he has still sat around for those 2 months as if he's still unemployed and things seem worse because he's gone now 6 days out the week for 8+ hours, am I overreacting if the guy makes $350.00 a week and has no bills? Only a cell phone bill? Don't u think this guy should be able to accommodate a woman whom he's been living with for 2+ years unemployed, hustling as an alley mechanic, and now employed. Actually Ive been like maybe he's saving to buy me something special like a car, but now Xmas is coming and this is the big break right here if I don't get nothing special. I know someone is going to say I'm getting used but if you feel that way that's because I'm allowing it and I did enjoy showing him I am independent and don't have to go out and whore around to get my bills paid yes I did it all by myself for 2 years. Now my grandmother left me the house so that's a new accomplish 3 months ago.....I just hate he's being so selfish I know 2 months isn't anything to be employed but ladies what would you do if your guy don't accommodate things like Victoria secret, nails, hair etc; I don't have children so I know most women have that extra money for nails, hair ,and perfume so you need not to apply if you're rich.