First time Anal?

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for couple of weeks or so and we decided on trying Anal for the first time together. Neither one of us have experience with this or know what to do to prepare. So can anyone help with what to expect or any tips

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Other than the tips given here,  I recommend spooning as the position to Start with, in my experience,  its much more comfortable than doggy style.

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It hurts at first. Ease in slow, and use lots of lube. Lol good luck and have fun ☺

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Make sure your boyfriend is going to be comforting and supportive throughout that experience .. we ALL know what that holes primary use is and he needs to make sure that he can handle anything that may or may not go wrong. The chances are very slim of a slip up but still - it's something that requires extra support and comforting with.

Make sure you've been to the toilet recently. Ideally have a shower before doing anal so you feel clean - don't use any douches or perfumed soaps because it's such a sensitive area and you can't be messing around with the bodies natural balance.

You'll need a condom for this so if you don't normally use condoms go and get some, preferably thick ones with extra lube. Talking of lube, get some anal friendly lube that won't affect the condom.

I think that's most of the prep side of things but when it comes to engaging in the act don't just go straight in for anal. You need to make sure you're aroused and relaxed so have some fun first. When you feel ready make sure the condom is on and you're both lathered in lube. He can enter VERY SLOWLY and it would be handy for him to have the lube bottle at hand do add more when needed. I would recommend you play with yourself to stay relaxed and aroused. Just take it slow and steady and STOP if you feel uncomfortable - you can always try again.

Goes without saying wash straight afterwards :)

Oh and I should say it might be an idea to start with butt plugs - again lots of lube. This can start to stretch you a bit and relax while you're fooling around in the build up to anal. Good luck :)

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With me and my husband it was a spur of the moment sort of thing and the first time he only managed to put the tip in but he could hear I was in pain so he took it out and continued in my V. The second time though it was similar and it wasn't until the third time, after I'd climaxed already that he tried and he fit half of it in ! Which is a lot because he was big and wide but then it got too much and was uncomfortable so I told him to stop, I do think he struggled abit though tbh! Think it got way too tight and that was with me being relaxed.

I'd recommend plenty of lube and to relax

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Its painful first time.. but its good expr..

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For the first time it's best to use a condom and lube or just lots of lube. And he needs to take it slow like snail slow. You also need to relax allowing your muscles to relax so he can glide in and it won't hurt as much. Personally I couldn't do it.

First time Anal?

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