So my sis in law

Just told us she pregnant with her 3rd kid..I am in my homestate with my mom because husband is deployed and he wants me there with family since it's our first kid. And my brother,his girl,and their 2 year old also live with my mom. I am a lil upset from the news because they already so depenendent on my mom. My brother works a minimum burger place job and my mom pays most of the other bills there. I pay for my husband,mom and mine phone bill and get groceries whenever my sister in law runs out of food stamps. My husband and I make it together but I can't count how many time my sister in law and brother didn't have enough for gas or for pampers. I know my kid will have everything and more I just pray my nephew or niece has the same or hope it the same gender so it can have my kid's stuff later lol.