My boyfriend and I been through he'll and back and am always there for him 100% whenever I can be .....we have a 4 year old son and a daughter on the way .. Two weeks ago we were having conversation because of something my mom mentioned about us getting married. ....... so I waited until my mom left then I asked him ; when are we really going to get married ? His reply was, when he goes away overseas he's gonna marry someone to get his citizenship and then after a year as passed he divorces the person then we can get married..... I burst into tears immediately ; I have been in tears ever since .....I haven't looked at him , I haven't slept with him in the same bed, I have spoken to him but only if he asks me sumthing or if my son needs sumthing. He doesn't know what he's done but he destroyed what we had by saying what he did ...... am I supposed to sit here with our 4 year old son and a unborn baby and wait for him to back ... After he's lived one year of being married to someone he's never lived with .....sigh...This is all that's been on my mind for two weeks