How can I bring up TOYS?!
New potential relationship-just having fun right now and getting to know each other. We have only had sex once and it was okay, but it takes a lot for me to orgasm and it has never happened by penetration alone.
I've brought up the topic of toys and lube with him casually and he's just all "We don't need toys" but I really want to be like "well....you might not, but I do!"
I'm not sure if he is just too embarrassed or what his hang up is. He is 31 and I am 27. I am at a point in my life where I know what I like, what I need, and I am SO over "faking" or acting like it was good when I don't get off. I don't want to hurt his feelings but I know what I need.
How can I bring this up in a way that doesn't make him feel less of a man because I'm pretty sure his ego is taking the hit...should I just bring something small and not intimidating with me next time? Help!!!
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