My husband doesn't try

So I guess I just need to vent about my husband.... I get so tired of how he never tries, for anything. On Christmas I put a lot of thought into all the gifts I bought him and thought he would be so happy about them. Most of them the just said oh thanks and tossed them to the side. It's clear that the gifts he got for me he just bought on a whim because he saw them in the store, no thought at all. I know that Christ isn't about the gifts but it just hurts my feelings. The only gift he has actually enjoyed is the one that he bought for himself with a gift card. I do everything to take care of him and do things that I think he would appreciate, like when he comes back from long trips I make his favorite meal for dinner and make sure he always has clean laundry and he acts like it's expected. I just feel like crying. I try to talk to him about it and he acts like I'm over reacting. I want to be married to someone who actually values me.