My dad and my Aunty (who's like my mum) came over today to pick some things up. I was in my spare bedroom bottle feeding these day old kittens my partner found on the side of the road yesterday. Anyway, my dad mutters "fucking cats" and just starts moving the stuff out before chastising me about leaving my car in the sun instead of parking it in the garage. My Aunty comes in and goes "oh what have you done" looking down at them. I get up and start helping them move the stuff and my Aunty tells me to go look for something that's missing. I do but can't find it. My dads outside now ranting about 'bloody cats, should've drowned them' and I excitedly tell my Aunty about my scan I had yesterday and show her the pics. She goes 'life's changing very quickly isn't it' and then 'I cried this morning thinking about all the choices you've been making. You're never going to have any money, I thought I taught you better' and then I'm just standing there like wtf is your problem (I don't say anything) she gives me a sad look and says goodbye and I can hear my dad swear when she tells him I couldn't find that thing. I lost my job last week and she had the nerve to make it seem like it was my fault by 'your choices' and like my pregnancy was a mistake. My partners work ends in feb so I know we're going to struggle if he doesn't find something soon but I can't believe what she said and how out of the blue it all was. I've been crying my eyes out for hours and I blocked both their numbers. I gave the kittens to my local vet so they can take care of them. I feel so lost and sad and like I have no support. 😓