Do you think that it's a bad thing that I spoil my BF?

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All my friends are telling me that I should stop spoiling him because he's going to get use to me doing everything for him like cleaning for him cooking his meals and giving him massages I do it because that's how I show love and love doing things for him. We love eachother much that I don't think it's a problem he does so much for me aswell. Is this normal got you? Or do you think I should back off on doing everything for him?

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I say if you love doing it go for it! I would tell your friends that they are jelous and to butt out! As long as your 2 are happy that's all that matters! 👍

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U do what feels right for you, and don't take advice from single friends...

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Not at all I spoil my boyfriend

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Not at all. Showing your feelings for him and how much you care is a good thing. But too much and hell maybe take advantage of it.

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So what if he gets used to it? If he is right for you he will understand when you get too tired to give him a massage or cook for him. Besides it is normal for people in long term relationships to slow down on the romantic stuff. If your friends' concern is that he won't return the favor just remind them that you don't do nice things for the ones you love in order to get something in return...

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My mom always said if your going to spoil someone be ready to spoil them there whole life, if thats how u show your love and you love doing it then whats the problem? Cause i dont see one

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I do spoil him at times but he deserves it. He works hard and still makes sure he spends time with me even when he's tired. He always has my back and it's my way of letting him know that he doesn't have to do everything alone

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I do them anyway and he takes advantage 
I don't see it as spoiling HIM I see it as keeping my house clean and eating properly. 
He's the type that doesn't do much and huffs and puffs if he's asked to do anything but it's my house and he has to pull his weight too.

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Thankfully my fiancé is an amazing cook. But it's not bad at all!  I love to cook for him, massage after a long day of work. Just different ways to show love. He spoils me, so I don't see why woman shouldn't do it back

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It's not bad, but I will say I can barely get my husband to eat unless I get up and cook/heat up his food. Not shitting you. He's naturally a twig, but he is underweight for a 6"0, 24yo. Not saying your hubby will be this aggravating, but keep in mind it's good for them to help you out sometimes. Particularly if your relationship's long term.

Do you think that it's a bad thing that I spoil my BF?

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