Would you be mad if you found out your child's fathers, girlfriend said that she doesn't want to deal with his kid/kids?

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This is NOT my situation but I know someone with this situation.

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Luckily my oldests father kicks girls to the curb immediately if they show any issue with him being a father.  His last gf said I "control his life" because he has an obligation to his son.  Before I could ask how he handled that he said "so she's gone..."  He also doesn't bring any girl he's seeing around our son unless they're serious.  Makes me respect the heck out of him for putting our son first.  The right woman will treat him like a blessing, not an interruption to their life together.

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Then she better show herself the door.

You knew he had kids. No ones asking you to play mommy, but be respectful of my damn kids. Lol

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I wouldn't be mad at her. If my kids father continued seeing someone who felt so little of his kids, I'd judge the hell out of him. He should be putting his kids first, including in choosing his significant others

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No, because it's a lot of women get with men and don't say that from the jump and end up mistreating the kids. Secondly she is his gf not his wife so she isn't obligated to anything . Hopefully he chooses someone who feels the opposite to be long term with .

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If "tell that bitch about herself" was an option I'd click it! 
And I didn't even have kids but have some damn respect or date a man with no kids.

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Yes!  My oldest children's father use to say his girlfriend didn't want our kids at her house (which is where he lived) and if I did take them over there I had to send them their own food. I was livid. I told him if she feels that way about his children he should tell that bitch to kick rocks. Got into it with her several times. She always says she never said that and he was making it up. I still don't let my kids go over there. If you're going to be with someone who has children then it's a package deal. My husband treats my oldest 3 just like his own.

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My bf has three kids from a previous relationship..I watched the kids for 3-4 months everyday for the mom...I recently got to overwhelmed and told  their mom I couldn't do it anymore,..I love the kids I just couldn't handle them everyday yet...I would never say I didn't want to deal with them though

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I was talking to my bf about this, like if we found out he had other kids from previous relationships. He would want to be there,which is understandable. But I personally don't have shit to do with those kids. So if it was that case vice versa, I could respect that. I probably wouldn't want the gf to be involved in my child's life anyway, unless they were or planned to be semi-serious (dating for at least 3+ years)..or if I was letting my kid spend a few months with their father and they lived together cause that's unavoidable.

But I would never expect a woman to assume responsibility for my child just cause she's fuckin their father.

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Mad ? No lol no one gets the satisfaction of making me mad
But I would talk to my child's dad and explain that she doesn't need to be EVERY left alone with my kid. 
I would explain that I can't pick or choose his relationships but I can have input  on who is in my child's  life. By all  means if that's who he wants to be wi th cool just know I don't want my kids around her.
When  you find a nice respectable women who is ready to open that baggage by all means I'm fine with her in my kids life .

Would you be mad if you found out your child's fathers, girlfriend said that she doesn't want to deal with his kid/kids?

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