So I am a little afraid. For some strange reason, ALL the women in my family are like size 6 UNTIL they have their SECOND baby... I know it's weird but it is something we have all noticed years ago. Even continued to watch it happen after we all noticed it. It is almost a proven fact. So I am concerned!! I am on my second child, for women who experienced spreading hips, st what point in your pregnancy did you experience it, and what were done things that helped with the pain?