So the man I am with has a son who is almost 8 years old. I've never been with someone who has a child so whenever he has conversations with the mother, I get a little jealous tbh. I snuck into his old phone and read messages and got onto his FB and the message were 90% about the child. Recently she was trying to beg him back so my red flag automatically went up. She is a real piece of work and we currently have custody because she can't seem to get it together. Should I be jealous or worried? He is always assuring me he doesn't want her back. Maybe I'm just overthinking.