No sex drive?

Question

I honestly masturbate some times (once a week or less) but then I feel guilty. Some times I'm with a guy and I know we will have sex I just go with it but it's not like I get super horny. It gets to the point where I think I get raped after sex but I give consent. Is that just me? I like sex but I'm afraid of pregnancy and that's why I feel like that.

Answer

I don't feel raped but I have felt the fear of getting pregnant and it made me tense up just before he came. It took a while for me to gain complete confidence in my birth control for me to get over the feeling. I think if you are using just condoms it will make the fear more intense since you hear so many stories of girls getting pregnant because the condom split. If you trust your birth control and your partner the feelings should pass. I would talk to him about it so he knows how your feeling and won't get a complex because he doesn't know what's wrong with ya.

No sex drive?

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