where's my cherry??😁

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So I was out on New Year's eve at s party with all my friends. Long story short me and a friend ended up getting very close and eventually made it up to a spare bedroom in the house. 
He fingered me and I give him a blowjob (this was my first time doing this stuff) He then realised when we went back down stairs that there was blood on his hand and we went back to the bathroom and cleaned up properly. 
We both assumed that he must've popped my cherry but I've got some questions I was hoping you guys could answer? 
1. Is it normal to be sore sitting down, wiping and peeing etc after? (It's still like this 3 days later.)
2. Should I still be finding  blood on my pants?
3. Is it normal for grey gooey substance to be coming out of my vagina?
4. now that my cherrys popped will it be sore to loose my virginty?
5.is it normal to find it difficult to pee from it happened?