Best anxiety medicine?

Britt 💜
So I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder months ago and took Zoloft for it, which worked like magic, except it killed my ability to orgasm and also some of my normal emotions, like getting sad about stuff that's supposed to make you sad. So I weaned myself off, but now I feel more anxious than before and it's starting to cause problems for me. I just got into a new relationship too and I don't want my overthinking to ruin what I have. Has anyone taken any form of anxiety meds that haven't had bad side effects??