Hi ladies I just wanted to ask for advice from seasoned girlfriends who may know exactly how to handle my current rift between me and my boyfriend of 4 months. He is very busy, he works on his own time when his phone rings it's usually for him to go pick up some money. He also has a daughter he care for on afternoons. All of these factors play to one thing Time management. We had made plans and he has to cancel. I don't feel like I'm allowed to be upset because he's an adult with responsibilities I understand that but it's so hard and frustrating and I feel disappointed and I start to cry because I feel like my only opportunity to leave this awful house is with him. College friends live too far to hang out with and my best friend works during the day. So I just feel lonely. I've expressed this to him but it feels like I'm talking to deaf ears because he can't change his situation. He tells me to just adapt and move past it but it's difficult to do when I think I'm finally getting to see Him and plans change last minute and the way he says things sound so emotionless and even sarcastic but he says he's genuinely sorry and he'll try to not disappoint me but in the moment I just don't buy it. We do see each other for a short time but it's not enough for me. How can I either lower my expectations and stop feeling miserable when he cancels or any other solutions.