anal sex

I've been wanting to try anal sex with  boyfriend but I've been too nervous to do so, but last night he was turning me on so much and turned me over and went to anal fuck me but after he put the tip in it hurt so bad that I made him pull out. He was in me only tip deep for literally 5 seconds and it felt like a missle protruding from my anus 🙄😂 does anal sex always hurt that bad? Because after he pulled out and I finally got out of pain I really wanted it again for some reason but it hurt too much