HOWEVER...I'm having a girl and sent this on Snapchat to a few of my friends asking what they thought if I had this be my baby shower dress. Some loved it and thought it was cute and others shamed me for wanting to wear black when I'm having a girl and told me I should choose a pastel color. For the record, this was the ONLY dress on the rack my size, as well as in this style, didn't have color options, and I'm very picky when it comes to clothes. But I could always accessorize and wear a purple momma to be slash. I really like it and bought it and can return it of course if I find something different before the end of the month but what do you ladies think?