Am I being selfish?!!

I spoke to my mom last night & she basically invited herself to stay with me after the baby is born for TWO weeks.. 😯😐

1) I've lost a baby after he was born due to medical issues, so I never got to take him home.

2) This is my bfs first baby.

3) I really just want to enjoy our baby together just my bf and I especially after taking the baby home.

Am I being selfish for this , I don't know how to tell her nicely that I don't want her staying for two weeks..