Update: Sick of My Roommate
So back in the November my roommate told me that I had my boyfriend over too many times to the apartment I stay at. My boyfriend had only stayed five nights total during the month of November out his six nights he's allowed to stay in one month. Usually I go home in the weekends but in October I had finally got my license and with my anxiety I was super anxious about driving on the interstate and in heavy traffic by myself (I'm from a small town, our biggest parking lot is a Walmart parking lot), so I decided to drive around the city where I stay for school to get use to everything and my boyfriend was helping. Well apparently Kellie found this to be a problem because she said he had been over too many times and when I left him in the apartment by himself while I went to class it made her uncomfortable. I told her I wouldn't leave him alone at the apartment anymore while I went to class. Well, she continue to say that he was running up our power bill by playing video games (I've never heard of a tv running up a power bill but hey, the more you know 🤔). I told her that's funny because the month he was over the most that the power bill was less than half of the previous months and that the reason for it being high those months was because the AC was continuously running all day and because we have to run the dryer multiple times to get it to dry our clothes. She continued to insist that it was the tv and PlayStation's fault, and then told me that if my boyfriend continued to come over a lot that she would file a complaint to the office.
Anwyay, in December I invited my boyfriend over for the first weekend of the month and figured it wouldn't be an issue since it was a new month and that he had six new days to use. Well apparently my roommate didn't think it was okay during a new month because a couple days later after he left I got a letter from the office for a guest violation. So I had to go to the office and explain to them my side that my boyfriend had only been over 5 nights in November and 2 nights in December. They told me it was okay as long I kept up with the days that my boyfriend was over. I also filed a noise complaint against her because when her boyfriend is over, they talk extremely loud and play her tv really loud during the week and I can't concentrate on my assignments. I never felt the need to make it an issue but well, if she can complain then so can I. Once finals were over I went back home and my boyfriend didn't come over anytime of the break.
It's now January and my boyfriend hasn't been over to the apartment in a month, so again, it shouldn't be a problem. But no, apps out still is a problem. Today was my first day back to the apartment and I invited my boyfriend to come over before classes start on Monday. I guess Kellie overheard him talking today, because I later heard her talking on the phone bitching about me. I heard her say that she was "so over it," and that she's "already having a bad day so she's probably gonna say something she see me," and that I filed a noise complaint against her and lied to her when she asked me about it, and that I don't even pay rent that my dad and boyfriend pay it for me (they've only helped me with December's), and that I had the excuse of my boyfriend helping me with my anxiety problems and that it wasn't even a good excuse (and why do I even need an excuse to have my boyfriend over), and that I told her that my boyfriend helps pay my part of the rent and that he should be able to watch a little bit of tv (it's my tv) and that "no, it doesn't work like that," and also that I don't have a firm grip on reality.
And I hadn't even been back but a few hours and she's already bitching. I don't understand why my business is such a concern of hers and what the hell I did exactly (I'm guessing it's because of my boyfriend but I don't know because I couldn't make out everything). I also find it extremely hypocritical of her because her boyfriend is over almost every other day so I don't understand why she thinks it's alright for her boyfriend to come over multiple times (even more than mine) but my boyfriend can't come over. Like, I'm so done and I'm really wish I could just leave this place because it's come to the point that I hate staying here.
Also my other roommate has her boyfriend all the time, too, but I'm guessing that's not a problem because he still comes over all the time, too.
Update: She moved my stuff out of the bathroom and replaced it with new things. Obviously now she's just being spiteful. I hate this place and I just want to move. I'm not stuck under contract because I'm delegating for someone else so I guess the search for a new apartment begins.
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