Aight so boom,

Me and my long time best-friend from high school ended up rooming together while we both go to school for our masters. However she ended up not getting in but I did so she chose to stay and just take a year off to work and then reapply again later in the year( this year). However back in October she brought up the fact that she wasn’t going to resign her lease for the next year. I asked her what her plan was because we’re friends y’know? I wasn’t trying to be nosy I just wanted know what she had in mind since we were both set on the same kind of career path. And she just kind of gave me the cold shoulder and didn’t tell me. I was cool with that because some people just dont want you in their business and that’s fine.

Side note: However I have an inkling that she told our other good friend about what she was planning to do and I’m wondering why she feels like she can’t talk to me

Fast forward to about mid November things started to get really weird and I could just tell that the energy in the apartment has shifted into something ugly. She started doing pettty shit like separating everything in the fridge (her stuff on the left, my stuff on the right). Taking all the house appliances that “she bought” and putting them away in her room. Moving stuff out the bathroom etc...

Now I’m not a confrontational kind of person and I don’t like conflict but this is frustrating as hell because I don’t understand where this pettiness is coming from. We’ve been friends for over 5 years and have been through some shit. I don’t understand where the hostility is coming from at all. I think I’m going to try and work up the nerve to just ask but I really feel like any answer that she gives me is gonna be on some complete bullshit because all of this is happening so suddenly.

I’m sure I didn’t do anything and if I did she hasn’t brought it up to me so I really at a lost 😭🤷🏽‍♀️

Rant!