So my sorta friend informed me that when she had sex on the 31st, she thought the condom had broke because of the symptoms she was having. (This was one week post sex). I asked her if she asked her husband if the condom really did break and she said she didn't bring it up because she didn't want to "freak him out". He's in the military and is away at basic right now, so they aren't really ready for a baby. Anyway, she said her symptoms were back pain and cramps. Now she has some pinkish spotting so she's convinced she's pregnant. Which, if she is, I'll support her however I can. BUT she now is trying to tell me that her "pregnancy symptoms" are worse than mine. I'm not one to compare things like this because everyone is different. But she literally doesn't even know if she's pregnant yet and already he back pain is "unbearable" which it might be but she doesn't have the right to tell me it's worse than mine. And I'm now 15 weeks pregnant, so I haven't even gotten to the harder (from what I've heard) symptoms. I made it through the morning sickness (barley), and I'm in the round ligament pain stage and the horrible back and hip pain stage. So I understand pain. But she keeps telling me things like "if you can't suck this up, why are you even having a baby?" Or "if you think you're in pain, imagine how I feel" WHAT DO YOU MEAN, "IMAGINE"?! IVE BEEN THERE. I get that her symptoms would differ from mine but that doesnt give her the right to tell me that hers is worse. Maybe I'm a little hormonal but I feel like I'm not in the wrong. I asked her to stop saying that and now she's saying I'm "unsupportive" and "only care about myself" she's got the mood swings for sure.