Fwb got cold

This guy was my, after long relationship breakup, "feel a little better" about things.  It started that way for sure...  got me back into "life" and new perspectives.  But.... just couple weeks into it, he became the typical total douche.  Not just douche, like abusive (emotionally and verbally).   So the whole thing backfired because was already ripe from bad break up, then this guy did a Jekyl and Hyde.  I actually fell into a bad depression.  So months later he just emails me (I blocked, deleted his number everything)... and acted like nothing happened.   I'd jump back in a heartbeat because he's super passionate sexually but  that's where it ends.  I thought fwb or anything casual was just that and drama was out of the question.  Anyone else deal with remotely similiar?