How do I heal?? heartbroken...

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I need help... I'm going through a really tough divorce....but I love my husband so much. We were together for 6 years total, married for 4, and I was 6 months pregnant when I caught him in a hotel room with another woman.
My attorneys requested his credit card statements so I could identify his extramarital spending. It's been SO HARD to look at them. If I look at old statements, I remember good times. If I look at new statements, I see all the fun places going with his girlfriend, while I'm at home with our daughter. I was supposed to be on those trips...we were supposed to go as a family...that was our favorite restaurant and he took her there...etc.  What hurts the most is that he seems so happy without me and the baby... How do I heal?? Any words of encouragement or advice or hopeful comments would be appreciated...

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There will be a time in the future for you to go on those same trips, and better ones too, with your new husband. Don't be jealous of their relationship. It was built on lust and lies. They should be jealous of the relationship you are building with your baby. That's worth more than all the money he is spending on that whore.

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Wow!!! I am so sorry you are going thru this. I have to be honest and tell you that only time will heal. First now it's going to hurt bad, but slowly you will suffer less and less. And then, when karma hits him, you are going to feel much much better. Stay strong. Don't lose faith

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I'm sorry girl 😕 Just pamper yourself as much as possible

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One day at the time. Do something nice for your self everyday

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Praying for you! Hang in there, only thing that helps is time, and I hope it passes quickly for you. Focus on the positive, your beautiful baby.

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Im so sorry. Therapy! Landmar Forum possibly! Help from this community! Thats so hard and is such a huge betrayal and i hope you can find it in urself to keep reaching out to your friends and family and ppl for support to help u move on.

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It's not your fault, first of all. Seems to me that he is the one missing out. Who doesn't want to bond with their child? He is selfish and karma can be a cold hearted bitch. Just wait. Start the road to healing. Scream, cry, rage, get it all out and then let it go. Pick yourself up, be a strong mama and move on. You are capable and worthy. He did you a favor - he saved you from him and he gave you the freedom to find someone who is worth a place in your life and your child's too. This will not be easy, it may be the most trying thing you have ever done but will yourself to move forward every day and over time you will be truly free from this.

How do I heal?? heartbroken...

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