my first handjob... kinda?

Heyo! So things have advanced further with my boy, and I attempted to give him a ha job. (Don't worry, he's quite the gentleman. He attempted to do me first. LOL) The keyword here is ATTEMPTED. We both couldn't orgasm, but had a really really good time. Is this normal for anyone else's first time with this kind of thing? Maybe it's nerves? I still felt satisfied after we decided to take a break, but there was no climax. Any input from those wiser than me would be greatly appreciated!