We have a 5 year old boy and a 9 month old boy. My husband and I are both 33 and said we wanted to be done having kids by 35. I have had gestational diabetes and c-sections with both boys. I don't have very good pregnancies but even with my unfavorable pregnancies We can't decide if we want to go for a third. Some days We think we definitely want another one. It's so sad to think we'll never have a baby again. Then other days we are like no way, what were we thinking wanting another. How did you decide to go for another or stop where you were at?