My husband's friend's wife has been watching our daughter for several months. There have been some issues that I don't feel like she is the best to watch our daughter anymore.

Example: Our daughter had a diaper rash for over 3 weeks, we asked her to put on her diapers a little looser until the rash is gone. She literally has the tabs overlapping. She said she wouldn't do it because she didn't want poop in her house. I took offense, like she thinks we have poop in our home because we don't put the diaper on so tight. We have never had an incident in our home.

Example 2: She has been leaving her carseat outside her home. When we asked why her responses was she has no room in her house.

My question is, what would you say? I don't want my husband's friendship compromised.