Nervous

Ashley
So I'm 16 weeks pregnant and I've been announcing my pregnancy to my coworkers, friends, family etc. One of my coworkers asked me how my significant other felt about the baby and I mentioned that he was really excited and that he's already started to buy a few things for the baby. She goes on to tell me how we should wait until after 7 months because she had a miscarriage at 7 months and she had already purchased a lot of things for her baby. 
     Ummmm I understand her point of view and I get that she is just voicing her opinion but I don't think people realize how nervous that can make an expecting mom. Now she has me afraid to even buy anything because I don't want anything to happen. Ever since then I'm scared. Can you guys please just give me some words of encouragement that everything will turn out fine because I am so nervous and scared right now!