Still not showing:(

Im 12 weeks and 2 days with my first and still not showing:( im not a small girl, 25-30 lbs overweight maybe so I just keep thinking that's why. But I just want to feel it all, i want to look down and see her in there and feel her moving around and my husband to be able to touch my tummy and feel our daughter kicking. Im only 12 weeks along but i feel like i "miss" my baby already if that makes since:(