Husbands..

Brittany
My husbands has really bad anger issues and he just had another huge episode (punching walls yelling etc).... Now that I'm pregnant I'm rethinking it all because I don't want that around our baby... I don't know what to do.
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Ge

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Best way for a marriage ,relationship to work is to always talk when you are both not upset and calm 😘😘😘 good luck

Sh

Sh • Jan 19, 2017
Counseling may help

Ge

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Hi, all i can say is everyone is different and every women will tell you different things. But only you know how it really is at home. You also have to look at the good qualities of your husband because you are just saying the bad and most women will tell you leave bla blah. Witch is not fair for you him or your family. Im not saying his behavior is okay because is not but i do feel like he had a reason to loose it and we all do loose it at some point and we all react different. Is definitely not okay to do that around kids or anyone really but all you can do is talk after when ever hes okay. Never NEVER argue with him while he's in that mood specially if you know he has anger issues. Us women tent to escalate the situation and make things worse by arguying or even giving any feed back when someone is angry like that. I've learn that from my experience with my ex husband. I was also at fault . We always make the mistake to listen to others advice on leaving or saying our husbands are wrong because reality is your husband should always come first he's your family now priority with your kids. So he deserves that respect ,sane way you expect him to put you first. My ex husband was eveb worse than yours. He got to the point of braking things then it went as far as to hit me. Then thata different i left him. I did take a long time to realized i probably could of avoid some situations if i walked away instead of arguying . But then i got to a point i was scared and thats when i knew it wasnt okay. Because i realized he was wrong and had to work on himself. Please talk to him and tell him how you feel when he behaves that way. If he continues than is your decision on what to do. Alwaya look out for yourself and kids. You dont want them to grow up in abuse . Because even if hes not hitting you or them abuse is still abuse. Now im glad I've learn now im married again and happy with a man that understands me when ever i tell him how i feel.