Ok so I'm stuck in a little predicament here lol I'm planning out my guest list for my baby shower and trying to include everyone from my side an hubby's side my list is alot longer then his only cause he doesn't talk to alot of his mom's side. to make things short an sweet (kinda) I can not stand his mother I don't usually ever say I hate anyone but I hate this woman, she is rude and self centered and I can not stand her. So the problem I'm having is my husband still talks to his aunt and grandma ( his mom's sister and mom) and their nice people I have no problems with them and we're trying to decide if we should invite them to the baby shower, I have no problem if they come but then his mom will find out about it and try and come or just show up just to be the disrespectful ignorant person she is and I'm having the same issue with telling them when baby is born for them to come see him. What do you ladies think, should I invite them?