His mom doesnt like me 😳

My boyfriends mom doesn't like me.

At first it was easy to ignore

but now its putting a burden on our relationship

like, she invites him over for family events

and she's told him she doesn't want me to come.

The part that makes it a lil harder is the fact

that my boyfriend is what some would call

"a mamas boy"

So anytime he's invited to something

he'll leave. (which i don't have a problem with)

or sometimes, he has to make up an excuse of why he cant come, and he never tells her it's because we already have plans.

its just SUPER AWKWARD.

I've tried talking to her and i cant seem to get anywhere....

he says not to worry about it cause,

"im the one in a relationship with you, not her."

but sometimes it feels like,

she's the wife and im the side piece 😂😑

we were living together and she didnt like that.

shes the co signer.

welll......

she found out and threatened to put him out and not pay for anything.

*some of u may think, oh well he should pay his own bills,

it's not that simple, cause even when i was there id help him pay and she STILL didnt care, she STILL didn't want him around me. Because she doesn't like me.

and when we moved in together she made it clear that she WOULD NEVER COME OVER, not even to our house warming, because it had something to do with me.

im tired of walking on egg shells.

we're having a baby, and she said she wouldn't be there for the delivery bit that she would send the baby gift.

same for our wedding, she said she wouldn't even attend that. and its her oldest and only son.

it seems like we have to creep around.

were both 22 soon to be 23 in march btw

it bugs me and he knows it,

but he says. "my mom is just stuck in her ways and stubborn, aint no changing my moms mind."

anyone ever been in this situation?

ps. only reason she stated to him that she didn't like me was because she thinks im rude.

she says im never smiling,

the couple times i came over with my little sisters for play dates with her daughter and step kids (5 and under) i didn't clean up after them.

oh! and one time my bf accidentally locked the keys in the car and my purse was in there, she asked "what kind of woman leaves her purse in the car?"

(i got out the car first to go use the bathroom, my bf was still in the car)

my initial response was " im sorry, i didn't know this was going to happen."

was my response rude?

and when we first got together,

she said it wouldnt last long cause,

we had just both gotton out of a relationship.