Feeling pretty bummed out right now :(

Andrea • TTC baby #2 I would love to give my daughter a little brother or sister.
I have taken my ovulation test and its not the highest surge but on glow it says its very important to have sex today. My SO isn't feeling well so we aren't doing anything. I feel like that just ruins this whole month and now I have to wait a whole other month. I remember when I had the flu I even had sex when I was fertile. Why does something always happen on the most fertile days. This time I even went out and bought preseed soft cups and the more expensive opks. Feeling really frustrated right now. :(