So I just want to know is it wrong that I have to make all the effort in a relationship that's been going for over a year like all the effort like having to call message or anything just to talk and him always "forgetting" to call or has never got his phone on him and doesn't see messages till late? Or like me having to even make the effort to see him and bending over backwards for him but he can't do the same in return? Except sex like that's all he makes the effort of to do and always wants it but then does his own thing afterwards? Like don't get me wrong I hate all this I would like to get a call and a message first and everything have him do things for me and promise that he's going to come over or stay over but doesn't I would love it if it actually happened. I just don't know how to approach him on this without him getting angry cause that's hard he gets angry easily and I hate being around people that are angry and yelling I have anxiety and it is a big trigger for it and I've still got to learn to deal with my anxiety I have been diagnosed with it but not on medication, but I guess what I am asking is how do I approach him on this and what do I say and am I wrong for thinking all of this? Please help me I don't know what to do 😔