what should I do

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. I currently know a 17 year old due in May and is hiding it from everyone (the only reason I know is because I'm also pregnant) she's still drinking, smoking weed, having sex with random guys that don't know she's pregnant.. I know it's none of my business but I feel terrible for the child and don't know what to do. She has no money or job and has yet to get anything for the baby. I really am just sad for her, and now I come to find out she's actually dating a guy she's sleeping with and he still doesn't know she's pregnant. 🙄 I'm worried. 
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I have tried messaging her multiple times. I have texted her best friend who has told me she's worried about her. I'm confused how I sound like I'm bashing her? I'm actually worried. And I guess she doesn't even know who the dad is? She is getting serious with this guy. And she's around 25 weeks, some people just don't start showing. And I'm sorry but it isn't normal to not try and save up money. Especially when you're teen mom. Not to mention she already knows the sex and hasn't even bought one thing. I'm not bashing her, I'm actually concerned. I got most my items right when I found out the sex of my baby. I guess some people are different.

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I hate to be the one to jump to this, but since she's a minor you could call social services? I'm not sure they'd even be able to do anything, but I don't know what your other options would be? That's such a tough position for you to be in morally.

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Try talking to her...be a friend

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If she is having sex with someone who can't tell she is pregnant than she is probably pretty early on so not having things for the baby is understandable.
Also although she should probably tell him, its her choice ultimately.. she may not see the relationship as a long term one, so why tell him? It could seem like she is trying to make him a step dad if she tells him.

As for smoking and what not, its disgusting but its her choice
You should be supporting her and not trashing this young lady on the internet to a bunch of strangers..
She is young, pregnant and probably doesn't have a good support system.
Be there for her.

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I mean it's kinda late. If she's due in May she will start showing any day now, and people will find out. The only thing you can do is talk to her. Try and get her to feel emotionally connected to the baby so she will grow up. Ask if she felt movements yet, talk about names, gender, etc

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i don't think your bashing this girl at all you genuinely seem concerned, if this girl is old enough to have sex and make the decision to keep the baby she should be smart enough to TAKE CARE of it by taking care of her self!

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when the baby is born CPS will take custody if a/he shows signs of withdrawal of any kind

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