Who do you think is right?

Question

So im 18 and i just got my first boyfriend and my parents are going on and on about how I should stay a virgin till marriage and my virginity should be a gift to my future husband. Now i dont agree with them since i think that i should sleep with the potential guy before committing myself for life to him since i think that we should see if we are compatible first because sex is a very important part of a relationship and if its not good i dont think that I would cope. Who do you think is right?

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My grandma once told me sometimes you gotta test drive a car before you buy it 😂 whatever you want to do! I've read that women are so thankful that they waited and some aren't happy that everyone knew that they were losing their virginity on their wedding night. I'm far from a virgin, so is my partner, and I don't regret it. It's whatever works for you.

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Honestly in my opinion it's your body and you have say in when you lose your virginity but if you truly love someone sex will feel special either way. And I don't see that as a reason to not wait. Because if you look at just sex you might go through 10 guys before you find the one it 'feels right' with and he could end up being a jackass. Sex isn't everything.

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Your opinion about your body is the only one that matters.

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There's really no wrong or right answer. It's an opinion. But due to the fact that you're 18, you should do what you want to do. There's nothing wrong with waiting or not waiting. I personally think that I couldn't wait til marriage, nor do I want to.

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I think your reason behind it is valid; if it feels right then do it. It's your body, your choice!

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I think that regardless of the reasoning, it's your body and your opinion is the only one that matters.

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No wrong or right they just want what's best I guess but everyone's opinions different I didn't wait n I'm glad but I do love hearing of couples who are both innocent until marriage. Or u could marry n only u be a virgin. But I personally would gate to wait n not be compatible in the bedroom with my husband try before ya buy lol. So I'd say ur both right.

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