He's trying to take care of me...

He's trying to take care of me, but I'm trying to stand on my own 2 feet. He doesn't want me to look for other jobs, but I haven't had any luck in the last 5 years of finding anything and I'm pretty upset, but I'm still trying. Anyways, he says I'll never find anything, I haven't yet. He's trying to do everything and won't let me do anything. I was always told don't depend on a man and cover my own @$$. I'm not sure what to do.

*Not being picky about anything, I'm a recent graduate, I've been at my current job for 5 years, I've been looking for one since I've had this job and the only place that would hire so far was Wendy's, but they would only call me when they needed me