Cheating- which is worse?

So I had found out my husband was online dating with one of my ex's girlfriends for two years after we got married, he had an online relationship with her, I saw all the messages they even said they loved each other, but I didn't find out until two weeks after I had had sex with an ex that I was still had love for anyway my husband and I are still together but he likes to bring up that what I did was worse and makes me feel guilty a  lot.

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