How do you stop "trying" while trying?

Question

My husband and I have been ttc for 6 months now. I think I'm out this month. But I don't want to think about trying next month. How do you get out of that mindset?

Answer

You focus on making love when you REALLY want to as opposed to making love when you feel the need to during your fertile days. When my husband and I were trying for 6 months over a year ago I was getting depressed so I told him we should stop trying and just enjoy each other. BAM! HUGE BFP two days before my period the next month. I truly believe that not trying is the way to getting pregnant faster. :-)

Answer

Don't check things all the time. Just relax. Find a new hobby - something that makes you happy and focus on it and just enjoy the sex :) my fiancé purposed to me and we got our BFP the next month. 😊

Answer

I think you can't stop trying until your ready to you know? Like I can try to stop trying or thinking about it but that'll only make me think about it more...I feel like I'm gonna try, try and try again and when I'm emotionally ready to stop I will...just gotta ride it out.

Answer

I kind of stopped by not checking cm or using opks. This next cycle I'm only logging bd and that's it

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