af.....i hate you!!!!!

Mary • 37 yrs old and just gave birth to my rainbow baby 2/22/17 after having had 6 losses and I'm expecting again on 2/9/18
Well.....she showed up and with a vengance! A vengance ive never seen before. TMI filling an overnight pad every two hrs, passing tons of clots kinda scared. im drinking tons of water to stay hydrated. my fam is saying dont go to the e.r as they wont do anything. they say drink water, take iron pills and stay in bed and wait to see what tomorrow brings. whats your opinion? has anyone else ever experienced this?