Skip bj before sex this month?

Question

This is our 3rd month Ttc and I always give my husband a bj before sex to get him in the mood. Could this be why we haven't conceived yet? There is usually a lot of saliva but he wipes it off before we do anything. Idk what to do!

Answer

3 months isn't all that long. It's understandable that you need to do something to help him get in the mood but maybe save BJ's for the times of the month when you're not fertile. Saliva can effect your fertility. It can actually change your vaginal pH and make it not very sperm friendly. If you're concerned I'd avoid it. Maybe a handjob would do the trick?

Answer

Saliva is harmful to sperm

Answer

Does he cum when you give it to him or just go down on him? I doubt saliva would do anything since it doesn't get "inside" him. If you are allowing him to cum then when he goes in you there will not be a lot of sperm, they need to build up

Skip bj before sex this month?

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