Okay, I'm having problems. I'm posting anonymous because I don't know if anybody I know is on here. I have a bridesmaid that is a long term friend of mine.. but is being a total brat. She got married last year but is super disappointed in how her wedding turned out. I was there for her and have listened to her complain and cry and be upset and haven't had a problem with it. But when my fiancé and I got engaged, she flat out told me that if she wasn't in my wedding, we weren't friends anymore. So I felt an enormous amount of pressure to ask her. Since, she has told me that she wasn't happy when we got engaged because she was going to have to pretend to be happy that I am getting the wedding I wanted and she didn't.. She's told me that she was resentful of me getting married. She told me that she was going to get strippers for me (which I have expressly said I don't want, and she knows this), and has tried to undermine my MOH at every turn. I asked her to be in it because I wanted to preserve the friendship and didn't want to hurt her.. and asked her on the grounds that she would be okay with it since weddings are a touchy subject for her.. and she said yes. I just don't know what to do. Any advice ladies??
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