My husband said "Go find a new dress! We're going on a fancy date."

I've put on so much weight that nothing in my closet fits and I officially HATE clothes shopping. ( I never really shopped before I got pregnant)

Well, I didn't find a dress. I found a shirt. It didn't fit or look right. So now I have a date on Sunday, an ugly shirt that doesn't fit, and a receipt for $15 to return it.  I've never really had an issue with my weight so I'm struggling. Everyone keeps saying "as soon as you have the baby, the weight will come right off." But I'm having a difficult time believing it. Even my doctors tell me how much weight I put on and are concerned. I've tried everything from exercising to eating really healthy. I've been following the food chart that they gave me and it's not working.  😭😣