bleeding scare and husband was no help

So I'm 9 weeks and 5 days pregnant. This morning I started bleeding profusely through my pants and a bunch into the toilet. The bleeding was so much that I was terrified and called my husband to come home from work. He came home and drove me to the ER. We have a 10 month old and we had to wake him up from his nap to go to the ER so he cried most of the way there. My husband was getting really irritated with the baby crying and was no offering me support at all and kept yelling at me about the baby crying even though I was sobbing thinking I was having a miscarriage. We get to the ER and luckily they agree to see me right away. My son is still fussing. They ask to take me back for an ultrasound alone so I went leaving my son with my husband. While I was there they told me my baby is fine (thankfully) but I have a large SCH and have a 50/50 chance of miscarrying in the future. After the ultrasound they wheel me back up to the room and my husband is so grumpy because the baby crie the whole time I was gone. He didn't even ask how the ultrasound was. He said nothing. Just handed me the baby and sat in his phone in the corner. The doc came in and asked him if he heard the good news that the baby was ok and he said no. She informed him about the SCH and how I can't do any heavy lifting etc and he laughed at her and said that he has a bad back so he's gonna need help lifting the car seat in and out of the car. The nurse looked so surprised at his attitude and actually gave me a hug before she left. He didn't talk to me on the way home until we got back into our town and he asked if I wanted subway?? I'm so upset. I can't believe he acted so insensitive during such a hard time. What would you have done? Baby number 2 was actually my husbands idea. I wanted to space it out and he said he wanted them close together like him and his brother so they can be really close.